How Sex Addiction Affects Gay Women

Introduction to Sexual Addiction Sex addiction is a multifaceted condition that involves an intense and uncontrollable urge to engage in sexual activities. This behavior often leads to negative impacts on personal well-being, relationships, and overall life satisfaction. Although sex addiction can affect anyone, it is important to understand how it uniquely impacts gay women. The […]

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The Role of Lying by Omission in Sex Addiction

Understanding Lying by Omission Lying by omission is a subtle yet powerful form of dishonesty where key details are intentionally left out, resulting in a misleading version of events. In the realm of sex addiction, this can show up in multiple ways. For instance, individuals might choose not to mention certain behaviors, minimize the severity […]

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Healing Sex Addiction with IFS Parts Work

Understanding the Concept of IFS Internal Family Systems, or IFS, is a therapeutic model that sees the mind as made up of various parts, each with its own unique viewpoint and emotions. Rather than viewing these parts as problematic, IFS considers them valuable and essential aspects of our psyche. The core concept is that everyone […]

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Breaking Down Entitlement and Sex Addiction

Grasping the Concept of Entitlement Entitlement is a mindset where someone believes they deserve certain privileges or special treatment without putting in the necessary effort. This can show up in many areas of life, including how we interact with friends, family, and coworkers. For example, a person may feel they deserve a promotion at work […]

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Breaking Down Kinks, Fetishes, and Paraphilia in Sex Addiction

Navigating the complexities of human sexuality can often feel like exploring a vast and varied landscape. With terms like kinks, fetishes, and paraphilia frequently discussed within the context of sex addiction, it’s important to differentiate these concepts to foster understanding and support. By breaking down these terms and their implications, we can create a more […]

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What is the Link Between Neurodiversity and Sex Addiction?

In recent years, society has begun to understand and embrace the concept of neurodiversity—the idea that neurological differences, such as autism, ADHD, and dyslexia, are part of the natural variation in the human brain. Alongside this understanding, there is growing awareness of sex addiction, which is characterized by compulsive sexual behaviors that can disrupt personal, […]

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From Desires to Disorders: Unmasking the Truth about Sex Addiction and Exhibitionism

Sexuality is a complex and multifaceted aspect of human life. While it is normal to have desires and engage in consensual sexual activities, some individuals may experience difficulties in controlling their sexual behaviors, leading to the development of disorders such as sex addiction and exhibitionism. In this article, I will delve into the world of […]

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From Curiosity to Compulsion: Exploring the Complexities of Voyeurism and Sex Addiction

Voyeurism and sex addiction are two complex and often misunderstood topics that deserve careful examination. In this article, I will delve into the psychology behind voyeurism and sex addiction, explore the signs and symptoms, discuss the impact on relationships, and examine treatment options and resources available for individuals struggling with these issues. By shedding light […]

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The Psychology of Fantasy Sex and Its Impact on Sex Addiction: Unveiling the Complex Relationship

Understanding Fantasy Sex Fantasy sex is a complex and multifaceted concept that plays a significant role in the human psyche. It involves the creation of imaginary sexual scenarios, often influenced by personal desires, fantasies, and experiences. These fantasies can range from simple daydreams to elaborate, detailed scenarios that individuals may use for sexual arousal or […]

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Breaking the Stigma: A Comprehensive Guide to Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men

Sex addiction is a complex and often misunderstood condition that affects individuals from all walks of life. In recent years, there has been a growing recognition of the unique challenges faced by the 2SLGBTQI+ community, including those related to sex addiction. In this comprehensive guide, we will delve into the topic of sex addiction specifically […]

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The Power of Setting Boundaries: How to Cultivate Secure Attachment in Sex Addiction Healing

Sex addiction is a complex and deeply-rooted issue that affects individuals and their relationships in profound ways. When engaging in healing and recovery from sex addiction, it is essential to understand the concept of secure attachment and its role in the process. Secure attachment refers to a healthy and stable emotional bond between individuals, providing […]

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Applying Polyvagal Theory In Treating Sex Addiction

Introduction To The Polyvagal Theory The Polyvagal Theory, proposed by Dr. Stephen Porges, is a groundbreaking concept that explores the connection between our autonomic nervous system and our social behavior. This theory revolutionizes our understanding of how our body responds to stress and shapes our interactions with others. According to the Polyvagal Theory, the autonomic […]

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Sexual Anorexia Explained.

Today I want to talk about a concept that is often overlooked and sometimes misunderstood in the field of Compulsive Sexual Behaviors.  I am referencing to the concept of Sexual Anorexia, a term used to identify an individuall who has obsessive thinking around the avoidance of sex and intimacy.  It is important to differentiate this […]

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Differences in Sex Addiction: Gender and Sexual Orientation

Working in the field of Sex Addiction and through my experience directing and running a treatment program for Compulsive Sexual Behaviors in a residential treatment setting, I have observed differences in the population overtime.  The two significant differences I would like to touch on today, not the only differences but simply two that I have […]

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Building a Culture of Support: Group Therapy

Today I would like to address one of the cornerstones of recovery and the importance of group therapy.  I can’t emphasize enough the significance of co-regulation and its benefits to building intimacy and healthy relational skills for those who have struggled to build positive connections and lasting bonds as I have observed in many struggling […]

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Sex Addiction as a Intimacy Disorder

Looking at addiction in forms of a dysfunctional relationship is necessary in acknowledging relationship dynamics as well as seeing Sex Addiction through the lens of an intimacy disorder.  This is not just an ordinary relationship; one’s pathological “love” relationship to a mood altering experience, one which causes life damaging consequences is a way to define […]

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Am I A Sex Addict?

The question many have when acknowledging the presence of problematic sexual behaviors is simply, “Am I a Sex Addict”?  There are many aspects to keep in mind when conceptualizing Sex Addiction; specific addiction criteria along with collateral indicators that when examined together formulate the behaviors and make-up of a sex addict.  The collaboration of this […]

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Sex Addiction: Ten Types of Sex

Dr. Carnes, pioneer in the field of compulsive sexual behaviours in his years of research has compiled ten types of sex comprising of behaviours, impaired thoughts rooted in pathological core beliefs of which we define today as ways to describe sex addiction. Assessment tools used today, titled the Sexual Dependency Inventory allows clinicians the ability […]

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Sex Addiction: Courtship Distortion in today’s Online “Hook-up” Culture

The first glance, a click or swipe away and it is love at first sight. Chemicals running through the pleasure centres of the brain and within seconds a plan is formulated, on set of mental obsession at its heightened state and we have the pathways of addiction in full swing. This is what today’s online […]

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Establishing a sobriety definition in the treatment process of sex addiction

Sobriety definition has significantly hindered the efficiency of the treatment process due to the lack of understanding around the importance of when and how to establish what one would identify as sobriety.  If not all behaviors that solicit the dopamine response are eliminated, the neurological system will continue its addiction cycle of dopamine self regulation.  […]

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